How To Bring Faith Back To Your Unfaithful Partner
By: T Dub Jackson
You may have decided to forgive your husband for cheating. You may be dedicated to the cause of saving your marriage. You are willing to work tirelessly to make sure that your marriage doesn't go off course this time around. There's just one problem. You have no idea how to give your heart back to your cheating husband.
This is one problem that most women in your situation must sooner or later face. You can go through all the actions and do all the things you need to dom but at the end of the day you're having difficulty in dealing with the fact of your husband's infidelity. You are not even sure if you can ultimately have faith in him again.
This is basically normal.
The truth of the matter is that most women in your shoes are feeling this way which is totally normal. It would be more bothersome and disturbing if you were willing to go in and totally trust him again.
Trust in marriage is something you work hard to receive and make. It's like when you asked your husband to do something for you and he forgets about it and you lose a little trust in him on that case. And another situation where he did the same thing and you lose a little more trust in him. Then, it came to a point where his fidelity became questionable and you totally lose your trust in him. In most cases, all of these situations where trust can be exchange in.
You don't have to give him your trust right away. You have to hold it back for short while and little by little give him a bigger share. Give him the chance to make it and win it back. Your trust is the award he should be after. It won't be bad for him to work hard a little to get it back again.
The thing about this is that, if you want to save your marriage you cannot make it really hard for him to win your faith back. As what most of women would usually do that he should really plead to get it back.
The problem with that is that it makes him work harder than necessary. Sometimes it's too hard and he gives up completely just short of the prize he seeks. That is a terrible loss for both of you.
Now, the question is, how do you trust your husband again after infidelity?
One single day at a time.